Dove flexible hairspray and tousle me softly by herbal essence ?

I love Tousle Me Softly by Herbal Essences. It gives you that nice messy wave look that looks like you didn't try too hard, but still looks nice for everyday wear. Whenever I have my hair down that's what I use and my hair doesn't puff or look frizzy, and I have a lot of hair. Another one that I like is Waves of Envy gel cream duo by Sunsilk but I haven't been able to find it anymore at stores. :(